Pamcake Banter is a look inside the heart, mind and soul of me. I am Pam, a woman, that after 50 spins around the sun has decided to learn to love myself without conditions and without seeking approval from anyone else to do so.

This Pamcake Banter will be much like traditional pancake batter in that it will be a mix.

The base flour of honest self-reflection, the rich buttermilk of authenticity, the cracked eggs of a deconstructed evangelical experience, the sugar of my natural sweetness and a unique flavor that is anything but vanilla. Not to be left out…the burning griddle of menopause…without that burn there would likely be no pamcake banter.

This blog may feel like a wandering walk down a winding garden path. It will be a walk into a human garden that is wild & beautiful and filled with moments of wonder, moments of tears and moments to laugh at the creative beauty that lies within it.

My hope is this blog will increase joy, spark new powers of thinking outside of any box, spread wisdom of experiences (both new and old) and will most of all offer a pure space of authenticity that encourages others to be their authentic selves. 

Thanks for joining me, may this Pamcake Banter rise to meet its fullness in your reading, perhaps even with a dollap of a sweet cream smile on top. 

PS. This blog will go LOTS of places and will use LOTS of colorful language. If that’s not your bag, that’s ok baby, scroll on by. If that IS your bag than buckle your seat belt, grab your stirring spoon and let’s make some Pamcake Banter, together. Because after all, if you’re not here, I’m not here…right?! Wow, already throwing a deep philosophical & metaphysical thought at you, told ya to hang on tight!