Welcome to my Journey…
Exploring my inner world and sharing with you.
Pamcake Banter is a look inside the heart, mind and soul of me. I am Pam, a woman, that after 50 spins around the sun has decided to learn to love myself without conditions and without needing approval from anyone to do so.
These three areas are loose categories for some of my blog posts. As the blogs swell, more definitive areas will come.
I hope you enjoy the shares and glean something worthwhile from my journey.
Authenticity
I am choosing to walk with authenticity in my life. This may not always be pretty or seem kind but I choose to represent myself and my inner being and heart as authentically as I can. I am certain this long overdue “skill” will grow as I go and fulfill one of my deepest desires: to help others grow in their authenticity as well.
Experience
These writings are about my experiences, mine alone, and will go places and unpack crap that others may or may not see in the same light or may not agree that the world is so. This is my world and that isn’t for anyone else to decide except me. Each of us have a unique experience and each of us should be able to relay our worlds through our eyes, and no one else’s, without fear of being corrected or shamed.
Profanity
Part of my now authentic self (see far left) is the ability to use profanity without shame. For so many years I have both silenced myself and secretly judged others for their “bad” language. No More of That Bullshit! I will let the language flow as it needs and hold no judgment for myself, or anyone else, for how they choose to express themselves.
I am choosing to walk with authenticity in my life. This may not always be pretty or seem kind but I choose to represent myself, my inner being and my heart as authentically as I can.
– Pamcake
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